Someone has to be the Devil's advocate. I must speak for those who do not get there philosophy from Oprah Winfrey. Do any of you think that you can fulfill someone's needs and desires so completely that your partner will lose all attraction for anyone else? Are all of you that intolerant, that you would end a relationship because your partner made a mistake in your eyes? Do you not realize that even if your partner is perfect, it is only temporary? You are not looking for a partner to journey with but someone you can control in what is always an uncontrollable situation in the first place.Why not share and help each other instead of suppressing? Love has no safe place. Feeling attraction for another does not mean you have no love for your partner. When a woman "cheats", you will say, "she has needs that are not being met". If a man "cheats", he is undeserving of you. Your only counsel for each other is "you deserve better". You could not possibly know that. Turn off the T.V. and put down the fairy tales. To thine own self be true. Be honest with your partner. Keep your dignity, and forgive the rest of us for our mere flesh and bones. Maybe then you won't be cheated on.

if they say they love you then go and cheat on you, leave them ASAP dont waste anymore of your love on them, they dont deserve it. also every mistake you make is a teaching so learn from it and keep in mind what youve learned so when another man comes around you can find your Do's and Dont's. and one last thing try not to fall in love so easily. you deserve better. and if your gona want our help, your gona have to want to help yourself too. Poetic Wolf

I agree with crzyblindpoet, women follow where their hearts lead, they follow the path wanting to arrive at Loves safest place..
Cheats however follow a different route and somehow think with their zipper!! They are the ones who lose out in the long run. Karma!!!

Tammy Sproles..aka. the crzyblndpoet
if they cheat on you ...then they are not woth having....you deserve much more happiness...and remember they are men.....
a woman loves beyond her questions....dreams beyond her doubts...her heart will lead ...and she will follow ..even when there's no way out...her eyes refuse to see the danger ...a she walks right through the fire.......but a man ....will give himself to passion and desire.....but a woman loves.....and this is so very true.....keep your head up hun.....i will pray for peace within yourself

if they cheated on you, well then they really did not love you, and they sure as hell don't deserve you. as pretty as you are, you will find someone that loves you and who is loyal. unfortunetly in regards to men who said they love you and cheated on you, you have had the experience of trial and err, not a good experience to have but an experience non the less. This will just make your experience better and blissful when you do find your true love, one who is not a cheat. Remember , karma is just, and what go around comes around.

hey i am 17 and i have 2 kids. and the father of my two kids has cheated on me more then i think of all us girls need to do is keep are heads up high and wish for the best.